Welcome to misogynist NY and the club has women members.
Tragic death and to read her long list to her alleged murder beau first thought dump a guy u would have to write a list even 1/2 that long. Pretty clear he used her and took her for granted.
Finding a good single guy who would meet even your top 3 wishes -- well in NYC -- easier to get hit by a cab.
More women prefer no relationship to one with a slacker black hole like Nicholas Baker and in this violent city a bad choice could cost you your life but people don't come with warning signs.
In my opinion NYPD fixing crime letting violent people off like Delita Hooks help allow violent people to feel emboldened.
http://youtu.be/dh9TedhfthE
So I wonder if NYPD at the first Precinct let Baker walk repeatedly instead ticketing and false arresting Veteran and artist vendors.